Last night we went to a party to celebrate a milestone birthday of a good friend. He was turning 60 and his wife threw a party at a local restaurant. Forty of us showed up for the feast, fun, and laughter; and something more.
While we sipped wine and noshed on crabcakes, a nearby screen flashed photos of his childhood, wedding day, their two smiling children in various stages of growing up, and travels to all corners of the earth. Scenes from Antarctica, Nepal, Argentina, New Zealand and Mount Kilimanjaro spilled into the room, along with photos from the many marathons/triathlons/ironmans/century bike rides the host has participated in. Many of our photos were up there too, part of his extended family.
As one by one, people stood up after dinner to share a story about him (our admission ticket of sorts), I began to reflect on what makes a life well-lived.
Work that fulfills us, and fills our days with meaningful labor surely goes in the ‘plus’ column.
Making enough money to give our loved ones, and ourselves, the lifestyle we want is usually high on the list too.
But in the frenzy of life, it’s easy to forget that it’s so much more than that.
What I witnessed last night was the bountiful yield reaped from a lifetime of emotional investing: in creating a strong marriage with his wonderful wife, who I’m happy to call a close friend; in raising two happy, emotionally and physically healthy adult children who stood up to share with us how much they love him; and a roomful of friends who know they can call on him (or his wife) day or night if they need someone.
This wasn’t an epiphany – it’s something we all know, and I think, try to do as best we can. Some days we do a lot better than other days, and I’m sure that’s true for him too.
I’m married to someone who has also lived a well-lived and emotionally generous life, as evidenced by his strong relationship with his step-children, our grandchildren, friends, and colleagues. It strikes me that anyone who finds a life partner, raises children, or has a close-knit extended family, is served up opportunities for this emotional investment. But for me, an only child of two parents who weren’t particularly family oriented by their own admission, with a very small extended family I only got to know as an adult, my life has been more solitary. I have a solid circle of close friends who’ve been in my life for a very long time, who have enriched my life immensely, and to whom I hope I’ve been a good friend. But I’ve lived alone for most of my life, need a certain amount of solitude every day, and have been drawn into the deeper commitment of family later in life. So last night was a powerful reminder of the importance of emotional generosity, of investing in others without weighing out the convenience (or the lack of it). Because it is this, that in the end makes a life worth living. It is a well-lived life.
Which brings us to #SundaySupper and its mission to draw family members away from the distractions of the day to a common table, to break bread together, and share food, conversation, and piece of themselves with each other. And today, I’m sharing this soup with you as part of this week’s #Sunday Supper dinner.
This has been my go-to soup for the last few months. Like a well-lived life, it makes me feel good; all nice and warm inside. I hope it makes you feel the same way.
Smoky Kale, Tomato and Bean Soup

Serves 8
Prep Time: 15 minutes
Cook Time: 3 hours (not including cooking
Ingredients
- 6 slices bacon, cut into lardons (optional)
- 2 medium yellow onions, diced
- 6 stalks celery, sliced horizontally
- 6 cloves garlic
- 2 teaspoons dried rosemary
- 2 large twigs of thyme
- 2 dried chipotle peppers (optional)
- 2 cups white wine
- 1/4 cup (4 tablespoons) harissa (or make your own!)
- 3 cups cooked white navy beans (with 1 cup of cooking liquid)
- 4 cups vegetable broth (including the reserved 1 cup of cooking liquid from the beans)
- 1 28-ounce can diced tomatoes (I only use San Marzano tomatoes in a can – it’s worth the extra money IMHO)
- 1 teaspoon salt (or to taste)
- 1/2 teaspoon ground pepper (or to taste)
- 4 – 6 cups kale, deveined, and sliced in thick slices (I use Dinosaur / Lacinato kale for this soup)
- Parmesan cheese
- Day-old (or fresh) bread for croutons
- Olive oil
- garlic powder
Instructions
Add the bacon lardons to a large soup pot over medium heat, and sauté until crispy.
Add the diced onion and celery slices, and sauté until just tender. Add the garlic, dried rosemary, and fresh thyme and continue to sauté for an additional two minutes.
Add the dried chipotle peppers and wine, and bring to a simmer. Simmer for 10 minutes.
Add the harissa (a spicy Moroccan condiment available in most specialty stores), the cooked beans, broth, and diced tomatoes, and simmer for 2 hours at a low simmer. This concentrates the flavors beautifully.
Season with salt and pepper, and add the kale just before serving. Simmer for an additional 10 minutes.
Serve with a sprinkling of Parmesan cheese and a handful of garlic croutons.
To make the garlic croutons, preheat the oven to 400 degrees F. Slice up day-old or fresh bread into cubes. Toss in olive oil and garlic powder – enough to lightly coat them, and bake for 10 minutes or until lightly crisped. The croutons can be stored in a plastic bag for one week in the refrigerator, or frozen for two months in the freezer.
And now, please go visit with the rest of the #SundaySupper family to see what soups they brought to the table this week for us.
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Do The Chicken Dance (chicken {or other poultry} soups)
- Chicken Tortellini & White Bean Soup at Flour On My Face
- Chicken Gnocchi at Dinners, Dishes and Desserts
- Chicken Cheese Soup by There and Back Again
- Chicken Tortellini Soup by Country Girl In The Village
- Chicken Soup with Leeks, Onions and Fennel by Shockingly Delicious
- Family Style Tablescape featuring Chicken Tortilla Soup by An Appealing Plan
- Yucatan Chicken Lime Soup (Sopa de Lima) by The Weekend Gourmet
- Chicken Meatball, Spinach and Orzo Soup from Gourmet Drizzles
- Ground Turkey and Vegetable Soup at The Messy Baker
- Cheesy Chipotle Chicken Sausage Chowder by Cupcakes and Kale Chips
- Chick-Fil-A Chicken Noodle Soup by Family Foodie
- Chicken Vegetable Noodle Soup at Cupcakes and Pearls
- Healthy Bean and Sausage Soup by Momma’s Meals
- Smoked Sausage and Wild Rice Soup at Mama, Mommy, Mom
Where’s The Beef (Beef Soups)
- Chili with Black Beans by That Skinny Chick Can Bake
- Vegetable and Beef Soup by Supper For a Steal
- Swabian Beef Spaetzle +1 Soup (Gaisburger Marsch) at Galactosemia in PDX
- Bacon Cheeseburger Soup by Small Wallet, Big Appetite
- Beef Pho Soup by No One Likes Crumbley Cookies
- Frijol con Carne by MarocMama
- Pho Bo (Vietnamese Beef and Noodle Soup) by Neighborfood
Pass The Pork. Please (Pork or Sausage Soups)
- Louisiana Caldo by Catholic Foodie
- Sweet potato and Spanish chorizo soup at My Cute Bride
- Soft Tofu Soup (Soondubu Jjigae) by Hip Foodie Mom
Under The Sea (Seafood Soups)
- Shrimp Miso Noodle Soup at Pescetarian Journal
- Szechuan Fish Soup by The Urban Mrs.
- New England Clam Chowder at Cindy’s Recipes and Writings
- Hearty Okra Shrimp Gumbo Laced with Coconut Oil by Sue’s Nutrition Buzz
- Bacon and Shrimp Bisque at Big Bear’s Wife
- Lobster Bisque by Peanut Butter and Peppers
- Chinese Fish Maw Soup by My Trials in The Kitchen
- Thai Curry Coconut Mussel Soup by Noshing With The Nolands
Eat Your Veggies (Chock Full o’ Vegetables Soups)
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- Not-So-Mini-Strone at The Foodie Army Wife
- French Onion Soup by The Girl in the Little Red Kitchen
- Spicy Sweet Potato and Corn Soup at Magnolia Days
- Creamy Cheddar Potato Soup at Daily Dish Recipes
- Rather French Onion Soup by What Smells So Good?
- Broccoli Cheddar Soup by Hezzi D’s Books and Cooks
- Cream of Ancho Chile Soup from La Cocina de Leslie
- Pasta e Fagoli Soup at Cravings of a Lunatic
- Miso Soup by Crazy Foodie Stunts
- Vegetable Consommé with Semolina Dumplings – Grießknödel at Masala Herb
- Vegetable Medley Soup with Broccoli and Leeks at Chattering Kitchen
- Smoky Kale and Tomato Soup with Garlic Croutons by The Wimpy Vegetarian
- Coconut Corn Chowder at Mangoes and Chutney
- Make Your Own (Gluten Free) Condensed Cream of Mushroom Soup at The Meltaways
- Ital Carrot & Sweet Potato Soup at The Lovely Pantry
- Chunky Vegetable and Barley Soup at Curious Cuisiniere
- Corn Soup with Crispy Tortilla Strips at Ninja Baking
- Jalapeno Beer Cheese Soup by The Hand That Rocks The Ladle
- Wild Mushroom Soup at Food Lust People Love
- Creamy Carrot Soup at Cookistry
- Vermicelli Soup by Damn Delicious
- Country Split Pea Soup with Bacon and Potatoes at girlichef
Some Don’t Like It Hot (Chilled Soups)
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- Chilled Strawberry Soup at Juanita’s Cocina
- Bread and Tomato Soup – Gazpacho Style at Vintage Kitchen Notes
Of course once you have seen all of the recipes for the day, you’ll not want to miss our #SundaySupper conversation on twitter each Sunday.
We tweet throughout the day and share recipes from all over the world. This week we will be sharing out special soup recipes!
Our weekly chat starts at 7:00 pm ET and you do not want to miss out on the fun.
Follow the#SundaySupper hash tag and remember to include it in your tweets to join in the chat.
Don’t forget to check out our #SundaySupper Pinterest board for more fabulous recipes and food photos.
Join us Around the Family Table this Sunday at 7pm Eastern Time and share your favorite soup, stew, chowder or bisque recipes with us!

















Bacon AND kale? I’ll take the whole pot please!
Jen @JuanitasCocina recently posted..Strawberry Soup ~ Souper #SundaySupper!
Thanks so much Jen!! Sadly, for both of us, it’s all gone now

The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..#SundaySupper: Smoky Kale, Tomato and White Bean Soup
Your soup is beautiful and the crackers you have with it look delish!!
Thanks Jennifer!
The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..#SundaySupper: Smoky Kale, Tomato and White Bean Soup
What an important message! As our parents are aging and facing physical challenges, I’m focusing on how blessed I’ve been to have such caring family in my life. PS…your soup photos are as stunning as this dish must be tasty.
Liz recently posted..Chili with Black Beans…#SundaySupper, #SouperSundaySupper
Thanks so much Liz.
The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..#SundaySupper: Smoky Kale, Tomato and White Bean Soup
That first pic is enough to draw me in, but your whole post is so wonderful and meaningul Susan! So many things become obvious as we age, but really it´s impossible to understand them when we´re younger.
Paula @ Vintage Kitchen recently posted..Bread and Tomato Soup – Gazpacho Style #SundaySupper
It was certainly impossible for me to see it when I was younger. Hopefully the next generations will catch on to the importance of investing in relationships sooner than I did

The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..#SundaySupper: Smoky Kale, Tomato and White Bean Soup
What beautiful sentiments, and what a beautiful soup.
Brianne @ Cupcakes & Kale Chips recently posted..Cheesy Chipotle Chicken Sausage Chowder for a Soup-er #SundaySupper
Thanks Brianne!
The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..#SundaySupper: Smoky Kale, Tomato and White Bean Soup
Such a beautiful post!!!
This soup sounds fantastic – anything with Kale is a winner by my book! Lacitnato is my favorite type of Kale

Bea recently posted..Swabian Beef Spaetzle +1 Soup {Gaisburger Marsch} for #SundaySupper
I love lacinato kale too. I actually grew a whole bunch of it last year since we have perfect weather for it

The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..#SundaySupper: Smoky Kale, Tomato and White Bean Soup
Emotional generosity…love the phrase and the concept.
Also love your soup, which I am motivated to go put on the stove RIGHT NOW!
Dorothy at ShockinglyDelicious recently posted..Chicken Soup with Leeks, Onions and Fennel for Souper #SundaySupper
Thanks Dorothy! Emotional generosity is something I’m giving a lot of thought to right now. And greens

The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..#SundaySupper: Smoky Kale, Tomato and White Bean Soup
Wow, that is an amazing soup!! So chocked full of flavor. I love it!!
Thanks Tara!
The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..#SundaySupper: Smoky Kale, Tomato and White Bean Soup
What a great family to be a part of! The soup looks hearty and delicious!
Thanks Erin!
The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..#SundaySupper: Smoky Kale, Tomato and White Bean Soup
Susan,
Another winning kale recipe! We’re going to declare Kale Soup Week and share this link on our Facebook page. Everyone should make it! Love the harissa in here, too — an underused spice.
If you wish, come LIKE us on Facebook for more recipes and tips on super healthy greens like kale, chard, beet, mustard, turnip, collard, escarole and other green leafies. https://www.facebook.com/Cut.n.Clean.Greens
–Your friendly Southern California farmers at Cut `n Clean Greens
https://www.facebook.com/Cut.n.Clean.Greens
I hopped over to like Cut N Clean Greens. Thanks so much!! I’ll be back to get more kale ideas

The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..#SundaySupper: Smoky Kale, Tomato and White Bean Soup
A great soup and a great story!
DB-The Foodie Stuntman recently posted..Miso Soup for #SundaySupper
Thanks DB

The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..#SundaySupper: Smoky Kale, Tomato and White Bean Soup
Such a lovely post, and a gorgeous bowl of soup to boot!
Thanks EA! My little pedometer and I just got back from a nice loooong walk. I think of you and your blog every time I use it

The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..#SundaySupper: Smoky Kale, Tomato and White Bean Soup
What a great post! And this soup sounds amazing.
Lane @ Supper for a Steal recently posted..Birthday Week Celebration
Thanks Lane!
The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..#SundaySupper: Smoky Kale, Tomato and White Bean Soup
I am again reminded of how much we have in common in terms of family background – lovely post. And the soup looks good too

lizthechef recently posted..A Winter Cocktail, The Sidecar
Thank you dear Liz

The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..#SundaySupper: Smoky Kale, Tomato and White Bean Soup
Got a preview of this soup last week when Susan brought it to a pot luck. It is fantastic! Way to go, girl.
Thanks Rodger! I’m so glad you liked it. Yaaaayyyy!!
The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..#SundaySupper: Smoky Kale, Tomato and White Bean Soup
Mmm, love harissa in this!
Sarah recently posted..Rather French Onion Soup for a Souper #SundaySupper
Thanks Sarah. Harissa is one of my favorite condiments – I’m a little lost now without it. Which is ridiculous I know

The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..#SundaySupper: Smoky Kale, Tomato and White Bean Soup
What a lovely and heartfelt post. It is those times with family and special friends that remind us of the important things in our lives. It’s good that you have found special friends and extended family to share those wonderful times.
Nice addition of kale to this soup. It is a nice color against the tomato and white beans plus what a healthy kick too!
Renee recently posted..Spicy Sweet Potato and Corn Soup for #SundaySupper
Thanks so much Renee. I’m so lucky to have the friendships in my life that are so important to me, and now some satisfying family relationships that continue to grow over the years. Life is good

The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..#SundaySupper: Smoky Kale, Tomato and White Bean Soup
Oh my goodness, what a beautiful post. One that I certainly can relate to. I too am an “only” and being the daughter of immigrant parents, felt very alone growing up without aunts, uncles or cousins.
You are so right when you talk about emotional generosity. That is something I hope to instill in my children.
Thank you for sharing this beautiful story!
Family Foodie recently posted..This Week’s #WeekdaySupper Recipes
Thanks so much Isabel. I think it’s one of the things that really drew me to this wonderful #SundaySupper group – the sense of family you have created. Thanks for sharing your experience here – I totally get that. And it sounds to me like you’ve definitely instilled it in your children

The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..#SundaySupper: Smoky Kale, Tomato and White Bean Soup
Hi!
I’m smitten with your soup. It’s the picture of comfort, and I love bean soups with greens above all else. I’ll be trying this recipe. Kudos!
Alaiyo
Alaiyo Kiasi-Barnes recently posted..Shrimp Miso Noodle Soup #SundaySupper
Thank you so much Alaiyo!
The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..#SundaySupper: Smoky Kale, Tomato and White Bean Soup
Susan, this is such a lovely post. It sounds like you have some wonderful friends and family. This soup looks absolutely amazing.
Jennie @themessybakerblog recently posted..Dark Chocolate Peanut Butter Swirl Banana Muffins ~ #MuffinMonday
Thanks so much Jennie. I really enjoyed writing it. And enjoyed the soup the following day

The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..#SundaySupper: Smoky Kale, Tomato and White Bean Soup
This looks so delicious
Thanks so much!
The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..#SundaySupper: Smoky Kale, Tomato and White Bean Soup
What a lovely post! I love the phrase “emotional generosity.” What a great challenge for all of us. Sometimes that generosity is scary, risky even, but what wonderful rewards we reap when we’re brave enough to invest in the lives of others. On a side note, this soup looks incredible! Perfect for a Sunday Supper!
Courtney @ Neighborfood recently posted..ONE: The Great Fair Trade Chocolate Chip Experiment
Thanks so much Courtney. You’re right, besides the time we have to be willing to invest, it takes courage to make that investment in another person.
The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..#SundaySupper: Smoky Kale, Tomato and White Bean Soup
Beautiful soup and even more beautiful sentiment. I learned so much about life and priorities when my dad was sick. It was like light bulbs went off. Great food with great company always ranks high on the list of things to spend time doing.
It’s so true (and sad) that we really focus in on this when someone close to us is seriously ill, or dies. I look at some families raising kids, and wonder where they find the emotional time and energy for what they’re doing, but then remember that there’s so much energy that comes back to refresh you too.
The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..#SundaySupper: Smoky Kale, Tomato and White Bean Soup
I love every single thing about this bowl of soup…it sounds like pure comfort. Though I come from a family of 4 children, we didn’t necessarily grow up with parents (or other family members for that matter) who were emotionally generous. I’ve tried very much to change that with my own actions. Thank you for the reminder.
Heather @girlichef recently posted..Potato (Aloo) Samosas …inspired by Today’s Special {food ‘n flix}
Good for you for changing that with your own actions. That’s really the best thing we can possible do. We didn’t all come from the Brady Bunch family
. Thanks so much Heather.
The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..#SundaySupper: Smoky Kale, Tomato and White Bean Soup
Oh wow this recipe sounds so amazing, I have pinned it for later.
Thanks Laura – I hope you like it as much as we do!
The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..#SundaySupper: Smoky Kale, Tomato and White Bean Soup
oh wow! this soup looks absolutely delicious! I love it and am going to make this!!! yum!
Alice @ Hip Foodie Mom recently posted..Shaved Zucchini with Ricotta and Walnuts + The Newlywed Cookbook Giveaway!
Thanks Alice!! I hope you like it as much as we do. Love to hear how it goes with you if you make it

The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..#SundaySupper: Smoky Kale, Tomato and White Bean Soup
I am very kale-challenged, but this soup looks like a real possibility. Now I can look forward to the first kale in the CSA boxes!
I was kale challenged for years. I kept trying and just didn’t like it. But I made up my mind to figure out recipes that I could enjoy, and then kept adding on. Now I love it. But it took awhile to get there
. I hope you give it a try – I think you’ll like it as the kale is more of an accent, and takes on the smoky tomato flavors of the soup.
The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..#SundaySupper: Smoky Kale, Tomato and White Bean Soup
Susan, I love the sound of your recipe. I’ve been on a minestrone soup binge lately after reading The Prejudice Palate by Angelo Pellegrino. Your soup fits right in . Isn’t it wonderful to have friends who have a lifetime of friends and stories to share!
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Thanks so much Mare – and it’s great to hear from you. We’re in Tahoe, and will be mostly here for awhile now. I’m not familiar with The Prejudiced Palate – but the title interests me. I’ll have to look into it. So wish we could get together soon- I keep thinking life will slow down

The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..Adzuki Beans with Miso and Chopped Kale
Wow, this soup is so appetizing-looking! It would be so good on a cold night.
Julia | JuliasAlbum.com recently posted..Breakfast flank steak and eggs with guacamole
Thanks so much Julia. It is indeed my favorite soup right now. It’s a combination of flavors and nutrients that makes me feel so good.
The Wimpy Vegetarian recently posted..Adzuki Beans with Miso and Chopped Kale